• August 2, 20242 min

    Managing the Impulse

    Impulses, compulsions, urges – we all have them. Many of them are purely biological, such as the impulse to eat when you’re hungry or drink water when you’re thirsty. Some of them are more mental-emotional, [...]

  • July 24, 20242 min

    Humility: Cheering Others On

    As the 2024 Summer Olympics kick off in Paris this week, you will witness an incredible display of athleticism, teamwork, good sportsmanship, and sometimes ugly ego. Most athletes stand, clap for, or offer handshakes to [...]

  • July 2, 20242 min

    Shortcut to Staying Humble

    I’ve recently been reading some of Ernest Hemingway’s classic novels this summer. Other than triggering some flashbacks of high-school English class, it’s been great. He is poetic, honest, and cathartic in his writings. One thing [...]

  • June 28, 20242 min

    Integrity – Objective or Subjective?

    The character value of integrity is most often associated with “doing the right thing” – especially when nobody is witnessing it. But what is “right”? Is “right” something we each define for ourselves (subjective), or [...]

  • June 3, 20243 min

    Learning Integrity the Hard Way

    When I was in middle school way back in the day, I was playing on a local little-league baseball team. There were four teams for the small-town league, and we all practiced at the same [...]

  • May 22, 20242 min

    Mental Health is a Life-Long Journey

    Although it may come as a disappointment, there’s no such thing as a “cure” for mental health struggles. Depression, anxiety, stress, self-esteem issues, difficulties related to past trauma, substance use, and more very rarely just [...]

  • May 1, 20242 min

    Mental Health Awareness Month 2024: Starting at the Top

    Happy Mental Health Awareness Month to all who celebrate! Each May, we are proud to share our stories, to practice better self-care, and to build empathy for each other during out times of need. Together, [...]

  • April 17, 20242 min

    Being Honest with Your Therapist

    One of the hardest things to do in life is get honest with yourself and others about the fact that you need therapeutic support. Even though there is no shame in participating in therapy or [...]

  • April 1, 20242 min

    Getting Honest

    American painter and author, Walter Inglis Anderson, is quoted as saying, “Our lives improve only when we take chances – and the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be honest with [...]

  • March 20, 20242 min

    The Brain Science of Emotions – Part 2

    My favorite part of improving our understanding of brain science is this: the activities that make up the way we live our lives can directly affect our brain chemistry and pathways both positively and negatively. Three [...]

  • March 1, 20242 min

    The Brain Science of Emotions – Part 1

    The last time a car pulled out in front of you unexpectedly, did you feel scared? The last time your kiddo got defensive and started yelling at you, did you feel angry? The last time [...]

  • February 21, 20242 min

    The Power of Saying No

    “’No’ is a complete sentence,” says author and advocate, Anne Lamott. However, it’s a sentence most of us are rather uncomfortable utilizing as much as we should. At the core of learning how to set [...]