• December 1, 20232 min

    Patterns of Thought: Rumination vs. Reflection

    The most common modality of mental health and substance use treatment in the US is “Cognitive Behavioral Therapy” or CBT. Its development has roots as far back as the mid 1800s; however, the treatment as [...]

  • November 23, 20232 min

    Contentment and Desire

    Whenever I think about the concept of increasing my feelings of contentment in my life, my mind runs to the first two (of four) truths of Buddhism: 1) “Everyone is suffering in some way.” 2) “The [...]

  • November 1, 20233 min

    Contentment Instead of Complaint

    We had our first snow flurries of the season last week. My first thought when I saw it outside my window was, “Aw man, come on! Too early for this – it’s still October!” Complaint. [...]

  • October 25, 20233 min

    Fear vs. Worry vs. Anxiety

    Most of us have a tendency to oversimplify the myriad of emotions we feel throughout the day into four categories: happy, sad, “meh”, and mad. When asked by a colleague how we’re doing, we often reply, [...]

  • October 4, 20233 min

    Why Fear is So Uncomfortable

    “Well I saw the thing comin’ out of the sky, It had the one long horn, and one big eye, I commenced to shakin’ and I said ‘Ooh-eee’ It looks like a purple people eater [...]

  • October 2, 20233 min

    How to Support Your Friend in Recovery

    We continue to celebrate National Recovery Month throughout September. However, not all of us are in recovery ourselves. Some of us may only know someone who is, or have been touched by addiction in some [...]

  • September 1, 20234 min

    A Story of Recovery: Recovery Month 2023

    Meet my friend, Jeff. Jeff works for a local power utility company in Central Indiana as a lineman, and he’s great at his job. Outside of work, Jeff is a loving husband and dad, a [...]

  • August 24, 20232 min

    Addressing Perfectionism: For Students

    Do you ever feel like you just don’t measure up? You “try your best,” as your parents encourage you to do. You strive for those As and A+’s in school. You obsess about that shot you missed at [...]

  • August 17, 20232 min

    Rescuing the Past and the Future

    Many of us have a difficult time living in the present moment. We spend a lot of time preoccupied with thoughts about the past or with thoughts about the future. Oftentimes, these thoughts are accompanied [...]

  • August 10, 20232 min

    Using Your Time to Increase Mindfulness

    Most of us – if not all of us – can relate to feeling stressed out and overwhelmed at times. Specifically, in today’s fast-paced, often confusing, ever-changing world, we often struggle to focus and process our [...]

  • August 1, 20233 min

    Time is of the Essence

    During the holiday seasons of my childhood, I can still remember every extended family member and family-friend gasping the words, “Oh you’re just growing up so fast, young man! Where’s the time gone? I remember when you [...]

  • July 28, 20233 min

    7 Tips on Navigating Divorce

    When thinking about divorce, we often imagine everything two people are going through when separating – dividing up assets, custody battles, and continual conflict. Divorce is hard on adults, no question. But how does it affect [...]